Weekend Workshop
with Jeff Pincus, MSW, LCSW

Boulder, Colorado

Dear Friends,

In my 25 year career as a therapist and marriage coach, I’ve seen so many couples feeling disempowered and unequipped to address their repetitive cycles of emotional reactivity and disconnection.

They find themselves caught in recurring loops of fight, flight or freeze and disconnection that are both painful and draining. When this dynamic goes unabated, feelings of hopelessness and helplessness set in, and they begin to question the sustainability of their relationship.

I’ve also seen how the couples who work with me, are able to untie those emotional knots and learn new responses to old problems. They:

  • Update their understanding of themselves, their partner, and relationship with new, reality-based perceptions that are empowering.
  • Learn that they are not limited to emotional reactivity, but have many more choices of response than they had ever imagined.
  • Realize that their relationship is a genuinely creative and collaborative process, and they experience life-long joy and satisfaction.

This is the art of loving well.

It has been a privilege to watch love and understanding emerge from where it has been hidden…

...And I want to see this happen in your relationship.

You can be that couple that has the moves to love each other in ways that create genuine connection and joy together.

That’s why I’m inviting you to join my weekend workshop that includes the most essential components for growing your relationship over the arc of a lifetime.

Love well,

Jeff

P.S. Since this is the first time that I am offering this workshop to the general public, I am providing a 50% discount and only accepting a limited number of couples.

From Conflict to Connection

No relationship is perfect.

You might feel like you can’t have both yourself and the relationship you want, so you believe you’ll have to sacrifice one or the other.

Or maybe you feel that  relationships are unreliable and you won’t be loved in the way  you desire deep down.

You might even feel like you are inadequate or that you and your partner are incompatible.

But I’m going to let you in on a secret...

It is precisely these painful and stuck areas of your relationship that will take you to the next level of intimacy, joy, and resilience.

You see, if you are willing to do the work of “Loving Well,” then you can grow who you are together, improve your relationship, and expand  your lives in profound and meaningful ways.

From Conflict to Connection

No relationship is perfect.

You might feel like you can’t have both yourself and the relationship you want, so you believe you’ll have to sacrifice one or the other.

Or maybe you feel that  relationships are unreliable and you won’t be loved in the way  you desire deep down.

You might even feel like you are inadequate or that you and your partner are incompatible.

But I’m going to let you in on a secret...

It is precisely these painful and stuck areas of your relationship that will take you to the next level of intimacy, joy, and resilience.

You see, if you are willing to do the work of “Loving Well,” then you can grow who you are together, improve your relationship, and expand  your lives in profound and meaningful ways.

Jeff and Rachel are not just master level therapists, they are brilliant and original thinkers.

- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, creator of PACT

Loving Well is Perfect for You if You Want to...

• Move from conflict to connection
• Decrease anxiety, frustration, or disappointment in your relationship
• Remain confident in who you are while still being relational
• Trust the experience of being loved without fear of abandonment
• Experience quicker recovery after getting emotionally dysregulated
• Update outdated beliefs about relationship that are limiting
• Have better sex and feel more comfortable exploring it
• Increase the overall joy quotient in your relationship

Loving Well is Perfect for You if You Want to...

• Move from conflict to connection
• Decrease anxiety, frustration, or disappointment in your relationship
• Remain confident in who you are while still being relational
• Trust the experience of being loved without fear of abandonment
• Experience quicker recovery after getting emotionally dysregulated
• Update outdated beliefs about relationship that are limiting
• Have better sex and feel more comfortable exploring it
• Increase the overall joy quotient in your relationship

Event Description

In this two-day workshop, couples will learn the foundational practices for building and sustaining connection, joy, and satisfaction. Jeff, joined by his wife Rachel, will cover the most essential learnings from their forty years of combined clinical experience as psychotherapists that have worked with well over one thousand couples. Topics covered will include:

Healing the Past: Creating Memory Upgrades
Know how to heal your past, live in the present with each other, and create your future together. It’s essential to understand how our brains work, and how past experience automatically colors perceptions of yourself and your partner in the present moment. We will create experiences that actually facilitate new learning so that you aren’t constrained by your past.

Skillfully Working with Strong Emotions: Using Affect Regulation
Learn to effectively deal with the strong emotions that naturally get triggered between the two of you. Getting emotionally activated is normal, but understanding what to do when it occurs is an essential relational skill that makes the difference between your relationship feeling like the best part of your life or the worst part.

Unlocking your Love and Care: Learning Relational Literacy
Have a comprehensive map for creating greater understanding and intimacy that is unique to who you are and who you picked. It’s essential that your relational moves aren’t generic or vague but precise and tailored to the two of you, so you can use the exact key to unlock your relational potential with your partner.

This workshop will include didactic material, experiential practices, and the accelerated integration that comes with group learning.

You will learn: 

  • How to employ the necessary elements for engaging in healthy conflict

  • What role mental models and cognitive bias play in repetitive unsatisfying interactions

  • The Emotional Regulation Skills to deal with strong feelings necessary for adult love

  • How to use the 3 Step Process for creating Quick and impactful Repair

  • The hidden components to a satisfying sexual connection

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What people say about working with Jeff...

“Life changing.”
My wife and I have been in marital therapy with a different therapist for years and were no longer progressing. Jeff’s style and knowledge have strengthened our relationship very significantly in a relatively short period of time. While his time in not inexpensive, he continues to be well worth the cost  to my wife and me. - B

“Fundamental.”
Jeff has helped us turn our relationship around permanently. He works deep and efficiently. Not a typical approach. Forever grateful. - M

“Excellent.”
Amazing if you’re willing to do the work. I highly recommend engaging Jeff as a couple. - Teresa

“Couple therapy that works.”
Jeff is an extremely skilled therapist who has produced positive results in our relationship. We drive over an hour to meet with him, through Boulder traffic, which should say it all. His approach works! - B & C

“Blessed to Have Found Jeff.”
Jeff is a brilliant listener, subtle nudger, wise counselor, and compassionate giver...we have never left feeling anything but closer and deeper and more loving. Every time we spend time with Jeff, we learn things about one another and ourselves that are invaluable. A must for any couple who wishes to deepen their connection. - DW

“Brilliant couples therapist.”
Jeff has tremendous integrity in his work. He has developed a methodology to treat the couple as opposed to the individual. He is a keen observer who guides through the process of understanding primal automatic reflexes and how to become a more conscious partner. If a couple truly desires to make it work, Jeff is capable of assisting in that process. Jeff is a compassionate, articulate and brilliant therapist. My husband and I are deeply grateful to have access to Jeff’s wisdom and experience.

“I am surprised at the profound changes…”
...mind boggling...the focus is right where it should be...immensely helpful. - CM

“He’s worth it.”
...has revolutionized our relationship! Jeff helped us tweak some seemingly minor ways of relating that literally shifted us from doom into brilliance. Jeff helped us become each others’ greatest advocates and supporters. Now we really understand what makes the other tick on the deepest level and this leads to a way of relating that is radically transformed. We could never have done it without Jeff. - Corrine

“Worth every penny.”
This guy Jeff is pretty amazing. For my husband and I, this approach backs away from the ping-pong of typical therapy...Three sessions and so much better for it.

“Couple therapy that works.”
Jeff’s approach to couples work is different and effective. He really helps both people in the couple understand their contribution to the relationship and gives great suggestions about how to be more connected. Thanks Jeff.

What people say about Jeff and Rachel...

What a great pair! They work so well together and compliment each other to create a valuable, potent learning experience.

Jeff and Rachel model what they teach, and I feel held and reassured in their care.

Their relationship helps regulate the field, and their humor is great.

...so knowledgeable and so willing to share their knowledge in a non-threatening way...

Love the modeling of seeing Jeff and Rachel together. They are knowledgeable, committed professionals that convey information on numerous levels.

Jeff and Rachel are fantastic people and presenters.

Rachel & Jeff were great educators and facilitators. They are great role models as a couple. They are both flexible, professional and fun.

Wow! Jeff & Rachel are each terrific (knowledgeable, skilled, dynamic, open) and together as a couple they are amazing. The way they generously share their secure relationship is really nice (helpful, fun, warm) to watch.

Dynamic dynamite duo. So pleased to be learning from highly skilled, highly knowledgeable folks who are incredibly approachable.

Absolutely adored these 2 as our instructors. They are clear, thoughtful, and so intentional with their words.

Join master-level couple therapists, trainers, and happily married couple Jeff Pincus and Rachel Cahn in a deep, safe, and fun dive into the realm of committed relationship.

Jeff Pincus, MSW, LCSW has more than twenty-five years of experience as a clinician, teacher and trainer. He has helped thousands of couples  to transform their limiting emotional habits in service of greater intimacy, connection and growth. He is known for his direct and efficient approach and playful sense of humor. He is also deeply committed to doing this work himself, as he knows first-hand how committed relationship reveals those developmental lines that need attention in order to grow into our best selves.

Jeff was original Core Faculty for the PACT Institute where he helped to refine the training curriculum. He is considered a nationally recognized expert on PACT. He is certified in Hakomi, a somatic, mindfulness-based approach.

Rachel Cahn, MA, LPC has more than fifteen years of experience as a clinician, teacher and trainer. She works with both individuals and couples, and is the only clinician and trainer certified in PACT, Hakomi and EMDR. She has trained hundreds of professionals in these modalities, and is known for her warm and grounded presence. Rachel was original Core Faculty for the PACT Institute and was instrumental with refining the training curriculum.
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